Showing posts with label Self Motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self Motivation. Show all posts
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Celebrities Giving Back
Tyrese Gibson along side many other Celebrities took time out of there day to speak to the young minds of today! About dreams and goals, the ambitions for the future and how to get there, this was something we don't often see but takes place! It's a good look, but even more so it's a great feeling to have knowing that they care and support the young minds!
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Monday, October 26, 2009
Steve Havey The Most Heartbreaking Interview
This was the interview of the decade, most heartbreaking and thought provoking one on one. Steve Harvey has been the man to watch for years, we all fell in love with his humor and charismatic ways. We were all glued to the screens for "The Steve Harvey Show" and every movie he ever starred in has us in tears from the laughter. In addition to the fact he made movies that made us think and want more. Steve Harvey had a point when he said a lot of these bloggers speak on these celebrities and don't know them. Just running with rumors that hurt beyond expression. They have families too, love ones that read a lot of this garbage and can't help but turn the other cheek. What can one say other then it's not true will that stop them from spreading the rumors no but add fuel to it for some. Steve Harvey broke down in a way that compels you to think and understand they are humans, with feelings just like us. 

Can't imagine a world where hurt, pain and lies are what sells, furthermore in a world where we rather buy lies then seek the truth. His tears are from a man who has lived a life of fame but at what price they all pay. You want a break and just live your life, however you can't cause every movement is recorded. Every mistake is blown to heaven and made to be seen by those who make the same mistakes daily even. Why are their mistakes so much bigger then our own? Why do we feel it necessary to destroy a lot of them? What would happen if they all decided one day to stop, and say "We have enough money good -bye." How would you feel then, and who would take their places in the world of media? It's a circus and we think because we pay to see them in films or buy their music we own them! We don't own them, but yet we feel we can invade their privacy, and comment on end on their lives. Just one day I would love to see them give back a dose of what is given to them! How would these paparazzi people feel if their lives without consequences was invade. Every spoken word blown out of context and misrepresented for all to hear! Just one day of being hounded without peace,with the thought of being with someone and not having it private.
So easy to judge them because we go under anonymous we never have to admit our words, cause we are protected by the fact our faces don't have to show! We can hide behind a screen and type what we want without being connected. We have no right, why do we judge them so hard what makes us so perfect? They wake up just like we do every morning doing what they love, and doing what we love to see them do! The church world can be harsh and there is no pain like church pain. So many people sitting in GLASS HOUSES seem to judge the hardest, maybe if we started throwing stones at your house you would stop! Just because they can put the ball in the hoop, Sing like angels, get you to dance to their beats or tracks.Get you to buy tickets with anticipation to see their movies, or attend their concerts, we don't care they get hurt. That's the false hood a lot of you print will ruin their marriages, families,and images to the public. They have families that read this stuff, they have children that have to grow up knowing that any given day, something nasty can be printed about their parents or them.
What tickles me is that their good is not headline worthy to the world! So many of them do charity work on their own without mega spotlight. So many of them are involved in the communities you live in, but care nothing about! Have programs for children and have projects to better the future but all you print is the negative they do. Like you don't make mistakes or have any closet doors you want kept shut! This is why I do what I do, and changing the way we write about them all together. We should focus more on the positive, and what can take place now, then reflect over what has happen. It happen now move on, and let it go if you don't a solution that is positive and that can help SHUT UP! If you run it do it once don't over kill a problem and expose lies on top of what you don't know! My goal in life is to be the one they can come to without wonder, or second guess of the truth. My passion in life is to change how articles are read, be that one writer they can come to and know what they said is being printed. Not what I want them to say or what would sell more, but what came out their mouth. Being the most respected among trusted writers, interviewer is my goal in life. One person can make a difference the first step is acknowledging that change is needed not later but now. I have grown up with an uncle who is famous and known to the world. I have watched people tear down his name and don't know him, and heard the lies that they tell and never met him. I use to cry wanting to say something or do something, but what can you do? People will say what they want, he told me one time
"You can lie to the people most of the time. You can fool them the majority of the time, but you can't lie and fool them all the time." In other words you can't expect the truth not to come out, and your lies will be exposed. You think cause you write this garbage about them it won't come out that it's a lie WRONG!
Like I say and will continue to say
"For those that love keep it coming, but for those that hate do it in silence, but watch them succeed."
Steve Harvey with Donnie McClurkin on TBN
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Bob Marley - Keep On Moving
Scream-Michale Jackson ft. Janet Jackson
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By Geneva Relf,
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Monday, September 14, 2009
RAISING THE BAR TO GREATNESS

We are living in a time where anything is beyond possible and that dreams are just the beginning. That if your willing to work hard and put your mind to it then you can have and achieve it. Limitations are only for those who never try or seek to fail from the start. And never really wanted to see their dreams come true. This year alone should have shown us that time is not only limited but even the great are falling to soon. That life is only a one time shot and when you get a second chance to make up for mistakes or just simply not living take it! This life is so unpredictable and we spend so much time in gossip and rumors and destroying each other we not living. The energy you putting in others lives you could be putting in your own and furthering your future and goals.

I have seen some of the most beautiful queens fall for a man and fall to pressure of the world. Your a queen and your crown was stripped for what and when are you going to get it back? We are all beautiful and we all have dreams that deserve to be seen and you never know what you can do or change. Queens who deserve to been seen as such and not looked at less then that or valued less. We are proud women and we walk with strength and courage daily but yet we fall to pressure and what the world thinks what is and should be. I'm a queen who knows what I'm worth and knows what I capable of doing in this world. Don't get me wrong there are times when I second guess myself and wonder why thing are the way they are. Why can't he see I'm the best he'll ever get, and why doesn't he know what he makes me feel? How come I'm not good enough to be his girl but I'm good enough for you to use? These questions will never be answered because the truth is I'm better and your better than that. We are more then objects of beauty we are women who generate the nations.We are women who carry the efforts of struggle on our shoulders.We are the very backbone of this nation and the mothers of the leaders, and the very women who have the power to control it. We are more then mere objects of beauty or bodies but we are the reason your still here, we need to remind our self of that!
Nas - One Mic (Official Music Video) - Click here for another funny movie.
My kings what has happen to you and why are you all acting less then that? What happen to your thrown and your pride in yourself? You want a queen but acting like a joker you'll never get one and if you do you'll lose her if you don't wake up soon! Your losing all respect and what happen to working hard and holding us up when we need you? Your crowns are being lost among players and thieves. Your queens are being destroyed by neglect and insecurities they are losing the very beauty and innocents we need in this world. We need to remind you that your kings and if you want to be treated that way step up!
Will Smith Ft Mary J Blige- Tell My Why - For more funny movies, click here
We need to learn that if you have haters your doing things right,because haters only come when your doing something great. Hard work comes when the dream is great and the greater the dream the harder the work. Nas had a song name You Can Hate Me Now that ft. Piddy and this song proves my point let them hate. But don't let it stop your progress or work,because that is what they want. I'm on top you can either encourage me or hate either way I'm reaching that top. We need to stop hurting each other and learn to live together and start helping each other and stop tearing each other down. We all have to live in this world and if I destroy you and teach that to the future then what hope does our future have? Tell me why does it make us laugh to see others fall and why does the last word have to be so painful? We can raise the bar of greatness and change the effect we are putting into play. We can make the world a better place and a place so kings be just that kings. My queens take your place and be re-crowned as Queens that you are.
By: Geneva Relf
I don't say anything to discourage but to motivate.
My hope is that when you read this apply it to whatever area in your life needed to hear it. God Bless and keep your heads up your the King & Queens of this nation.
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Thursday, August 13, 2009
BEAUTY IN SELF MOTIVATION

What does motivation mean to you? What does that word really do for you when you hear it if anything for you? When I hear that word I think of drive and ambition and the cost along the road to get where I want to be. I think the biggest test God gives us is willingness and strength to achieve our goals. You need the willingness to endure any and everything that comes your way. The willingness to cheer yourself on when your the only one who sees you dreams coming true. The Willingness to hold on when all around you have given in and up on you, but the strength to stand while enduring. The strength to understand that pain is only for a moment and not forever. That is the battle scares that make the battle worth it and taste even sweet when made over to victory.

Self motivation is very important because you have to understand that the lack of success is due to the limitations and actions of our own being. In other words you have the power to make or break your own dreams, and the power you give others is in your control too! If you only hear the negative then after a while that is all you see, and trust to be true. If all you see and hear is positive then after a while you begin to see and think positive and strive for more! We have to start to realize we can't take everyone to the top with us and we can't expect everyone to be happy when we get there either. Not every smile in your face is for your happiness or for your benefit, but if you can just hold on and look to the sky you'll never fail. Anything worth having and doing is worth fighting for and struggling for because it's worth will mean more to you.
Sometimes that means really looking at those around you and making that decision and choice of whether they should still be there and how close you'll let them remain to you. It means those you grew up with might not be there anymore and those buddies of yours might not be there either after you look around. However it may hurt at first but I would rather stand before my few loyal, honest, devoted friends and family. Then be surround by liars, deceivers,and back stabbers who only want to see me fall. I would rather be around people I don't question then those I have to investigate and worry about. I also know that if I want this for me then I have to be this for others and treat them the way I want to be treated. Your acts have consequence's and karma to follow and you may not feel it then but let enough time pass you by you will. People don't understand that every action has a reaction and just because you didn't get caught today doesn't mean you won't tomorrow!
However don't forget where you come from and what it took to get there once you reach your goals. Don't forget the struggles and pain it took to reach your desires because that it the humbleness you'll need to stay where you are. Once you forget you'll slip and think that is where you always were, and don't forget to give back and help those on their way up. You give to not just to be giving but because you understand what it's like. Also have the heart to be a blessing now that your blessed.
BY: Geneva Relf
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